Friday, August 25, 2006

Friday
25.08.06

firstly, i don't understand this obsession with games. i mean, i suppose everyone has this thing that they always seem to be doing, but why whenever i ask what someone is doing and they say "playing games"... never mind.

anyway, yesterday's sudoku championships rocked! haha it was really fun, kogi and i sat together and worked out the puzzles together (which is the only reason why we came in second and third in the audience round respectively, beating marianne but not louis), and yeah, it was fun! haha then we tried the puzzle that the prince and princesses were doing and just as koganti was collecting his prize i filled in the final few answers! haha yeah man we finished it XD how cool is that! only 2 out of the four winning pairs actually completely theirs, and considering that we had done the audience puzzle as well, i think we definitely would have finished in time. YEAH cool stuff. =) go kogi! go sudoku! XD hahahahaha.


why can't a guy and a girl ever be just good friends? chunhan once told me that he had just been starting to believe it was possible, but it wasn't in the end. i always believed it, but now, i realised it may not be true, i've been wrong all this while. it's not just that they might like each other in a different way after a while, but it's also all the social stigma and gossip and all... simply because you're good friends, and good friends means spending time with the other person and caring about them, everyone assumes that there's something more going on. further more, if one of them got attached, well, how comfortable would the friendship now be, even if it's that, just a friendship? can you really see your bf/gf being really understanding and happy about you having this other really good friend who was a boy/girl? it's possible, i mean, everyone has friends of the opposite sex. but it would still be a little uncomfortable, if they're really really close. just a little.
and then, what if they do develop different feelings for the other, after a while? the internet is littered left right centre with tragic fairytales where people were actually attracted to each other but just never said, etc. but hey, it's true, it's valid. how often is it that the other person is truly attracted to you at the same time, and not because one first liked the other, etc? in reality, the fear of losing that friendship is a great one, a real one, a true one. "never kiss a friend, or you will lost that friendship..."

gah.




daniel: why?

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